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The Healthy Relationships Program

The Arc of King County’s Healthy Relationships Program offers:

1.     A Relationship and Sexuality Resource Line

2.     Workshops for People with I/DD and the Community

3.     Healthy Relationships School Program

Relationship and Sexuality Resource Line

Our Relationship and Sexuality Resource Line is for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, their families, and community members to ask confidential questions and receive support around healthy relationships and sexuality issues. Common reason people contact us include:

  • Resources to help talk to youth about I/DD about puberty
  • Strategies to encourage safe and appropriate behaviors with friends, coworkers, or romantic interests
  • Brainstorming strategies to promote “public vs private” behaviors
  • Concerns about internet safety
  • Questions about bodies, development, and relationships that one might feel embarrassed to ask a parent about
  • Resources and support for someone who experienced or is experiencing interpersonal violence such as domestic violence or rape


Phone: 206.829.7034


Articles and Information about Relationships, Sexuality, and Gender

A Plain Language Guide to the Internet

Workshops for the Community

We facilitate workshops for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, their families, and community members to learn about healthy relationship concepts such as:

  • consent
  • privacy
  • boundaries
  • healthy sexuality
  • trauma-informed care

We offer workshops to families and professionals so they may learn how to teach and reinforce these skills with the individuals that they support.

Healthy Relationships Drop-In Group

We have an on-going drop-in group for adults with I/DD age 18+, where we talk about dating and relationships. This is a casual setting with activities and conversation.

We meet most 2nd and 4th Mondays 5pm-6pm.

Register Here:

Healthy Relationships School Program

We teach a 10-week Healthy Relationships School Program to students with intellectual and developmental disabilities, ages 18–21, in Transition Programs throughout King County. Our curriculum focuses on understanding healthy interpersonal relationships as well as age-appropriate and medically accurate information about sexuality.

Education about healthy relationships gives students practical information to help them establish and respect boundaries so that they can have safe and healthy relationships with family, friends, coworkers, helpers and significant others.

This program teaches students broad concepts like positive decision-making and boundaries as well as nuanced information about sexual health, internet safety, and identifying and reporting abuse. In the classroom we learn about common values like respect, trust, choice, consent, and public vs. private behavior.

We offer information sessions for parents as well as letter home at the end of each unit so that families can reinforce concepts at home.  This program’s benefits go beyond friendly and romantic relationships, improving students’ self-esteem and empowering them to engage with their communities.

This is a 10-week, hour-long program offered once a week with instruction provided in the student’s classroom. We provide all materials and all instruction. The Healthy Relationships School Program is now being offered as a paid service, contact us for more information and pricing.

Our Staff

Wesley Jones, Healthy Relationships Program Manager


Helen Thieme, Healthy Relationships Educator


The Arc of King County strives to provide accurate information in a timely manner, with the highest standard of professionalism. If you have any comments or concerns about the services you received from The Arc of King County, please contact Robin Tatsuda, Executive Director at or 206.829.7011

Sources and Funding

This program is adapted from the solutions-focused “Healthy Relationships” curriculum developed by Theresa Fears, MSW at The Arc of Spokane. This program is offered under Robin Tatsuda, MSW, Executive Director of The Arc of King County.